lord give me strength

well we have had a few lookers this week and even a second showing on the house, which is good because if I have to deal with this much longer I will go crazy. Jay is driving me insane. I think I may have to tell him to stop coming home on the weekends-for his own safety. He seems to continue to be in "boss" mode when he walks in the door Friday. I keep this house up all week long, I take care of the kids all week long, he comes home and questions everything. He gets mad that we just want to chill over the weekend and the kids want to play with their friends. I don't mind that, they want to spend time with them before they move and never see them again..He chose to go up to Oklahoma without us then he has to deal with it we both have to make sacrifices right now. I don't understand why we haven't got to move up there yet, I wanted to move over the thanksgiving weekend but that has changed. We don't need to buy a house there we can live in a townhome or something we have done that with every other move....Not sure whats going on I know it had to do alittle with me since I wasn't sure if I was moving or not....
We are having Jordans birthday this Sunday along with there going away party and Jordan said "mommy I think I am going to cry at my birthday party cause i don't want to move" and I said "don't worry it's okay to cry I will be crying too"